Wednesday, Menachem Av 1, 5786 / July 15, 2026
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Wednesday, Menachem Av 1, 5786 / July 15, 2026
Today is Rosh Chodesh(first day of the new month), Menachem Av, or as it is called in short, Av.
As on every Rosh Chodesh, we recite the additional prayers of Hallel and Musaf. We also read the Torah portion about the Rosh Chodesh sacrifices which were brought in the Temple.
The Hebrew names of the months consist of one word (Nissan, Iyar, Sivan, Tammuz, etc,). Only the month of Cheshvan is called Mar-Cheshvan & Av is called Menachem Av.
Q. Why was the word Menachem added to the name of this month Av?
A. The first nine days of the month of Av are days of sadness and mourning. These are the days in which we mourn the destruction of the two Holy Temples, which were both destroyed on the ninth day in Av. We fast on the ninth of Av for the destruction of the Temples.
“Av" in Hebrew means "Father" and “Menachem” means "Comfort." The word "Menachem" is added as a prayer that G-d, our "Father" in Heaven shall grant us comfort and rebuild the Holy Temple speedily in our days.
In a deeper sense "Menachem Av" can also be translated as "comfort to our Father." In this context it is we who should be bringing comfort to our Father-in-Heaven.
How do we bring comfort to G-d in Heaven? This is accomplished through our performance of mitzvot and additional deeds of kindness, which will merit the ultimate redemption and the rebuilding of the Holy Temple. This will bring comfort ("Menachem Av”) to our Father in Heaven. As a result. During these days we are more generous at helping others, in acts of goodness and kindness and distributing more charity than usual.
The name Menachem Av tells us that in order to find true comfort, it has to be comforting for the Jewish people and comforting for G-d. This will happen with the coming of Moshiach and the revelation of the third Holy Temple speedily in our days.
Today, Rosh Chodesh Menachem Av, is the yartzeit (day of passing) of Aaron, the high Priest. We read about this in the Torah reading of the past Shabbat.
The Torah tells us that when Aaron passed away ALLof Israel, men and women, cried and mourned him. The reason, say our sages, is because was a person who, “Loved peace, pursued peace and loved every single person.” Aaron had a special quality of going out of his way to bring peace between husband and wife and between people. When Aaron passed away everyone felt a personal loss. May his memory be a blessing for us all and bring peace to all in this challenging time. Amen.
HAVE A VERY GOOD, HAPPY, HEALTHY, BLESSED, SUCCESSFUL DAY & MONTH
Tuesday, Tammuz 29, 5786 / July 14, 2026
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Tuesday, Tammuz 29, 5786 / July 14, 2026
This Shabbat we read Parshat Devarim, thus, beginning to read the fifth book of the Torah, Devarim.
The Parsha begins with EilehHadvarim – “These are the words which Moshe spoke to the Children of Israel.” The Torah tells us that Moshe began the book of Devarim on Rosh Chodesh Shevat and on the 7th of Adar Moshe passed away. Thus, the entire book of Devarim was said by Moshe over a period of five weeks.
We see this hinted in the first word of the Parsha. The numerical value of the first word of the Parsha, the word, “Eileh” is 36 (1+30+5=36)!
During these 36 days, Moshe recalls many of the events which they experienced together. He recalls the Giving of the Torah, the sending of the spies to scout the Land of Canaan and how the Jewish people refused to go into the Promised Land, which resulted in their staying in the desert forty years.
Moshe tells the people the importance of appointing judges. “I commanded your judges saying, ‘Hear the cases between your brethren, and judge righteously between a man and his brother and between the stranger that is with him. You should not show favoritism in judgment; the small and the great you shall hear alike. Do not be afraid of any man, for the judgment is G-d’s.’”
“You shall not show favoritism in judgment, the small and the great you shall hear alike.” Our sages say that to a judge a case of one peruta (a small coin) and a case of a mana (a greater amount) should be equal. They should both be as important to the judge.
By the same token a judge is prohibited to show favoritism to one who is rich or to one who is poor. Both have to be dealt with equally. A judge is not permitted to hear one side without hearing the other side. Both litigants have to have equal status in the eyes of the judge until the judgment is passed.
Rabbi Yonatan Eibeshitz (1690-1764), one of the great Torah scholars in his generation, was known to be a child prodigy. Even as a child he spent all his time studying Torah. He was once asked, how do you overcome your Yetzer Hara (evil inclination) who tries to persuade you notto be so studious?
He replied: “The Torah tells us that a judge is forbidden to hear one side of a case without having the other present at the same time. The judge has to be fair and able to hear both sides.”
“We know that the Yetzer Tov, the good and G-dly inclination, only enters a person at age 13 – at his Bar Mitzvah. Thus, whenever my evil inclination tries to persuade me to do the wrong thing, I tell him, I cannot listen to you alone. I must also hear what my Yetzer Tov, my G-dly inclination, has to say in the matter. But being that my Yetzer Tov is not within me yet, you will have to wait until my Bar Mitzvah, when my good inclination will be here, before I can listen to you and your persuasions…”
HAVE A VERY GOOD, HAPPY, HEALTHY, BLESSED & SUCCESSFUL DAY
Friday, Tammuz 25, 5786 / July 10, 2026
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Friday, Tammuz 25, 5786 / July 10, 2026
Shabbat we will read from the Torah the final two portions (Parshiot) of the Book of Bamidbar (Numbers) – Matot & Masei. Shabbat we bless the new Hebrew month of Av. Rosh Chodesh will be, Tuesday night and Wednesday. The month of Av has only one day Rosh Chodesh.
During the summer months we recite a chapter of Pirkei Avot (Chapters of Our Fathers) each Shabbat. This Shabbat we start again with the first chapter.
One of the beautiful and practical lessons in this chapter is: “Don’t be like servants who serve the master for the sake of receiving a reward. But be like servants who serve the master without the expectation of receiving a reward; and let the fear of heaven be upon you.”
Q.Reward is mentioned in the Torah. G-d promised many times in the Torah that He will reward us for the observance of Torah and Mitzvot. Why shouldn’t a person serve G-d for the sake of reward?
A.The Chafetz Chaim gives the following parable to explain this. A poor man was walking in the street. He was thinking to himself about how he could earn some money to feed his family, as he had nothing in his home. He needed the basics of food and clothing. He was walking with a bitter heart, his head bowed down... when suddenly he noticed a shiny object on the ground.
He decided to examine it. He picked it up and saw it was a small piece of glass. He was about to throw it away, but something struck him that this glass is different than ordinary glass, as it sparkled with different colors. He decided to take it and bring it to someone to check it out.
He brought it to a jeweler, who after giving one look at it exclaimed, “You have a brilliant diamond here. It’s not for the ordinary person. A diamond like this is befitting for the king. The word got out and the king called for the poor man to show him the stone. After examining the diamond, the king said to the man, “This is an extraordinary diamond. How much do you want for it?”
The poor man was at a loss. He had no idea of its value. He said to the king, “I have no idea how much it is worth. I’m only a poor person and wasn’t even sure if it had any value when I picked it up… You, my dear king, you know its value. Give me what YOU think it’s worth!”
The same is with our performance of mitzvot. We have no idea of their true value. If we were to expect reward it would be according to our values. We are like the poor man who would have given the stone away for a few pennies. Thus, our sages teach us that we should perform G-d’s mitzvot and study G-d’s Torah not for the sake of reward as our understanding of their value is very limited. Only G-d knows the true value of each mitzvah. We should leave it up to Him to decide the reward which He will give us for performing them. His reward will surely be much greater and more meaningful than any reward we can think of.
SHABBAT SHALOM
Montreal candle lighting time: 8:25 / Shabbat ends: 9:39
Wednesday, Tammuz 23, 5786 / July 8, 2026
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Wednesday, Tammuz 23, 5786 / July 8, 2026
This Shabbat we read two portions in the Torah; Parshat Matotand Masei - the two final portions of the Book of Numbers(Bamidbar).
Parshat Matot begins with the laws of vows (Nedarim); "Moshe spoke to the heads of the tribes of the Children of Israel, saying, ‘This is what G-d has commanded; When a man makes a vow to G-d or swears an oath to bind his soul with a bind, he shall not break his word; he shall do according to all which came out of his mouth.’"
This Parsha teaches us the significance and implications of words we speak.
Indeed, the third commandment of the Ten Commandments, "Do not utter the name of the L-rd your G-d in vain," is a prohibition which is associated totally to what we say.
Words and speech are very powerful tools. In fact, the creation of the universe, as told in the beginning of the Torah, came about through G-d's words! The fact that the Torah relates that the world was created by G-d's sayings, “Let there be light,” etc., tells us how important words are; they have the power to build or to destroy.
King Solomon said, “Life and death are in the hands of the tongue.”
This is why it is important to say, "Bli Neder"; which means, "Without a vow" when making a commitment. For one never knows if they will be able to honor their commitment.
We must especially be very careful to avoid using the expression "I swear." Swearing, even when one thinks they are 100% sure about the accuracy of the matter, is not appropriate.
Q. When one makes a vow to transgress a Torah law, are they required to keep his/her vow?
A. If one vowed to transgress a commandment of the Torah he or she is prohibited to fulfill the vow. A personal vow cannot override G-d's commandments. We have already vowed at Mount Sinai, when we received the Torah, to keep and observe all the Commandments.
Q. Why, when Moshe commands the laws of not breaking one’s promise and keeping one’s word, which applies to allJewish people, he, “Spoke to the heads of the tribes”?
A. The Chatam Sofer says that it is usually the heads of the tribes; the leaders, the politicians, who seek public office and compete for people’s votes, who will promise the people anything just to get elected, but as soon as they are in a position of leadership, they completely forget their vows and promises. Thus, G-d commanded Moshe to first command this to the heads of the tribes… Although this applies to everyone, the Torah singles out the leaders of the Tribes.
HAVE A VERY GOOD, HAPPY, HEALTHY, BLESSED & SUCCESSFUL DAY
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